4 Retirement Mistakes That Could Ruin Your Golden Years (and How to Avoid Them)

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Doug Goldstein October 16, 2025

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Don’t Let These 4 Retirement Traps Steal Your Golden Years

Retirement should feel like crossing the finish line and finally being able to enjoy the rewards of decades of work. Whether it is relaxed Friday lunches with family, traveling to the places always on the list, or simply the calm of knowing the bills are covered, the goal is peace of mind. But for many, retirement comes with hidden traps that can derail even the best-laid plans.

For Americans living in Israel with U.S. brokerage and IRA accounts, these pitfalls can be especially tricky. Overlooking them may lead to financial stress instead of financial freedom. Here are four of the most common retirement traps, why people fall into them, and what can be done to avoid them.

Trap #1: Ignoring Estate Planning

Estate planning rarely tops anyone’s to-do list. It feels heavy, even uncomfortable, so it gets pushed off until “someday.” The problem is that “someday” often arrives too late. Without a will, the government decides who inherits what, and that process can be messy.

Beneficiary forms on retirement accounts and insurance policies also trip people up. Those forms override a will, so if an outdated name is listed, assets may end up in the wrong hands. Add in powers of attorney for finances and healthcare, and the picture becomes clearer: without them, a family could be forced into court just to cover everyday bills.

For cross-border families, there is another wrinkle. U.S. accounts and Israeli property can fall under two different legal systems. If the plans do not match, heirs may be stuck navigating years of legal headaches. Estate planning is not just legal paperwork; it is the blueprint that spares loved ones from confusion and conflict.

Trap #2: Putting Kids Ahead of Retirement

It feels natural to want to help children. Covering a wedding, tuition, or even the down payment on an apartment can feel like a gift of love. But when the money comes out of retirement savings, the cost can be steep. Unlike children, who can borrow for school or adjust plans, a retiree cannot borrow for his or her golden years. Once the money is gone, it is gone, often with added taxes or penalties.

Setting clear boundaries does not make someone less generous; it makes him or her wise. Retirement funds should be protected first, because a parent who stays financially secure provides far more long-term support than one who runs out of money later. Protecting retirement accounts also teaches the next generation the value of financial independence. A lesson that will serve them well into adulthood.

Trap #3: Claiming Social Security Too Early

Social Security is one of the most reliable income sources in retirement. But timing is everything. Filing at 62 locks in a smaller benefit for life — often 25 to 30 percent less every month. Waiting until age 70, however, can increase payments substantially.

Impatience or fear sometimes drives people to file early. But once the decision is made, it cannot be undone. For a surviving spouse, that reduced payment can be especially painful. For Americans in Israel, where exchange rates can swing, maximizing the dollar-based benefit provides extra breathing room. A little patience here can go a long way.

Trap #4: Falling for Scams

Scammers never retire. They spend their days inventing new tricks to separate people from their money. Some pose as banks or government officials. Others push “can’t miss” investments or tug at heartstrings with fake charities. Sometimes, the schemes even come from within a trusted community.

The defense is simple but powerful: slow down, verify, and talk it over. If a call or email feels urgent or suspicious, stop and check with a bank, a friend, or an advisor. A few minutes of caution can save years of regret. Once money is lost to a scam, it is rarely recovered. Prevention is the strongest shield.

Building a Safer Retirement

No retirement plan can eliminate every risk. Markets will shift, currencies will fluctuate, and unexpected life events will arise. But by avoiding these four traps, a retiree can build a safer, more confident future. Retirement should be about enjoying life, not worrying about whether the next financial misstep is around the corner.

Note: This article is for educational purposes only and is not intended as financial, legal, or tax advice. Please consult a qualified professional for guidance on your specific situation.

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